Birthday Bliss

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This last weekend was my birthday weekend and I got to ride four days in a row with plenty of good gallops and long trots. Q was a delight and despite the bad behaviour of other riders on trail. He is growing up fast! And of course has me giggling on every ride.

The seasons are shifting again with the trees barren and the cold increasingly present. Next up, winter.







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