Gratefulness

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Tough week. Had me wondering if it was the full moon or some planet in retrograde. Everything seemed to be souring, and my level of irritation was at an all-time high.

And then, out of the blue, a client team shared their gratefulness with me. An unexpected gift.


Reminded me of the ted talk on gratefulness leading to happiness. Worth a listen.








Ted Talk on GratefulnessTed Talk

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